Broadcaster An Sun-young revealed a past dating experience in which she was so obsessive that she called her boyfriend 100 times a day.
On the 15th, a video titled “Spicy and Hot: Failed to Adjust the Intensity of Spicy Dating Concerns” was released on the YouTube channel ‘An Sun-young’s Double Life.’
In the video, An Sun-young empathized with a woman in her second year of marriage who said she was stressed because her husband would not speak to her for one or two days after minor arguments, stating, “I am the type who finds that the most difficult.”
She then recalled her own past relationship, saying, “We had a fight, but he stopped answering my calls for three months and then set a wedding date,” adding, “If this person did not answer the phone, I would call 100 times.”
An Sun-young said, “If you think about it from his perspective, my passion must have been too much of a burden,” explaining, “Since he was my first boyfriend, I wanted to do everything with him.”
She further speculated, “This person already had a girlfriend he had been dating for eight years. Because he had experienced all the ups and downs with that girlfriend, he probably wanted an independent woman.”
She added, “Whether I was happy or sad, I would always seek him out and pour everything into him, so I think I made this person avoidant.”
An Sun-young emphasized that even in romantic relationships, one must respect each other’s boundaries. She advised, “Compromise is important. It seems right to mutually uphold the minimum boundary line that should never be crossed, no matter what.”
She also said, “When an avoidant person retreats into their avoidance cave, use that time for yourself,” adding, “If you greet them warmly and casually when they return, they will find you even more attractive.”
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